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5/21/2014

A Moving Analogy about Change - Debbie Streicher

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There are many articles and blogs addressing the subject of change. The church is one of the last places people seem to be willing to accept and go with the flow of change. I find this to be very interesting due to the fact that everything else in our lives changes almost on a weekly basis. Weather, work, school, clothing sizes (for children and adults), homes, and budgets are a few examples. Change is inevitable.  
Familiarity gives us a comfortable feeling. Change is uncomfortable. Comfortable means no action and very little desire to approach something differently. Change means experiencing a new way of life and can lead to growth. As we go through changes, I believe it is important to include a time of grieving but also include a time of celebration. If we seriously want to move towards the future in our faith communities, it will involve the next generation in the leadership of the church. That means change.

I like to use the analogy of moving to a new home as an example of a different perspective on change in the church. Military families, on the average, move every three years. They move across the country and across the world. There are times when not only the location changes, but the language and culture as well. How do these families cope? Granted there are some who do not adjust as there are some in our churches who do not cope well with change. Ready or not, it happens.                                                                                                 

Let’s take a look at some initial steps a military family goes through when they adjust and look forward to each change of house and location:
  1. Tell family and friends the news about the move.
  2. Begin to assess what will be needed or not needed in the next location.
  3. Make plans to get to know the new community.
  4. Meet new neighbors and establish new found relationships
  5. Seek ways to get involved in the new community. Many times activities will be different depending on the location and the culture.
  6. Be open to trying new foods, inviting new friends to get to know you, and learn about the new community.
  7. Prepare for the move with a positive attitude seeking new adventures.

In most places in the country, the look and feel in our communities is changing. When you reflect on this list of initial steps taken for a move, think about moving towards new ministries to stay in synch with the changing culture of the church. Which of these steps would you choose first if you were asked to move the faith community in a new direction? How does the fact that change is inevitable in all other places help you recognize the changes needed in the church?

My husband and I have lived in 11 houses in the last 35 years in different states and different countries. As I write this blog, we are in the process of moving again. The painter is blasting music, there is a person measuring rooms to replace carpeting, and I am sitting in an empty room with my laptop on an old tabletop trying to concentrate while thinking about change in our lives and how it can apply to change in the church.

Change invades every part of our lives so it is a good idea to adjust, reflect on the past, and move on with a positive attitude and an enthusiastic eye on the future.

It is never easy but I have often found that until you take active steps towards it, you cannot fully grasp what is in store for you.

When we moved to Japan, I cried all the way there. When we moved back to the States, I cried all the way home. What once seemed scary and foreign soon became a natural part of our lives. So it can be for the church as we adjust to new ways of being the church. How exciting. Now that is something to celebrate! 

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Elsa Mendoza
5/21/2014 02:18:10 am

11 houses in 35 years in various states and countries. Whew?
I decided early on in life that my family would have stability of place and it seemed to be counter cultural to the perspective that hopping from place to place was the only way of moving "up." I repeat what you say--it is not easy nor comfortable to stay in one place or neighborhood or faith community and grow stability and deep geographical ties. Some like you celebrate geographic transiency and some of us celebrate geographic rootedness. Both are places of life-giving growth and change. 2 houses and one short rental in 30 years and thriving!

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Debbie Streicher
5/21/2014 04:13:09 am

Thank you for your response. I truly value being rooted and sometimes have been envious of others who have not transitioned from house to house. Our moves were related to my husband's career in the Navy. If we wanted to be family together and raise our 3 sons, our choice was moving together. I rejoice that some are able to stay rooted. The analogy I use of moving, from my perspective, is more directed as dealing with change in our culture. Technology is one example of change that has affected how we build relationships and the way we do ministry. The last 20 years, our family has been blessed to be in the same location, but when I reflect on our children and how our environment has changed through the years, understanding change was important and our previous years of moving contributed to our understanding of change in our midst. What was not mentioned in this blog is the true value of maintaining ritual and traditions in family and in our faith communities. That is important! Perhaps my next blog....

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